Wednesday 20 May 2015

Ex.

When going through your list of exes, do you find yourself saying "yeah I still would"? Some of you might be like me, friends and on good terms with some of them. You may have had your quarrels in the past but you were kids then. Things don't work out. You have separate lives and separate plans for life...but every few years, something keeps bringing you back together for one night of filth. Some exes are meant to be your best mate. That's it. No sex, no lust, just friendship.You're compatible everywhere else but in bed. Everything that you once found attractive and sexy about that person now seems obsolete. Your palette changes and you find you now find muscles, joggers and hoodies attractive rather than skinny jeans and converse. Me? Dunno what you're talking about, I mean in theory... But every now and then it's easier to stick to what you know, rather than the awkwardness of another first date with another online date. Only to get it out your system, mind. I'm not for one minute suggesting you consider getting back with an ex. Cos let's face it, they're an ex for a reason. But we all have needs. And if you're at the right stage with that ex then why not? A quick fuck is not a cue for you reminiscing about the cute 3 months you spent together as teens. Sex is sex. Save the romance bollocks for someone who deserves it and wants to spend time with you, even after he's emptied his load.  Someone who WANTS you to cook for him, fuss over him and stay in bed together with Netflix and a smoke. They deserve the sexy undies, the cute texts and wifey stuff. Be patient.

 

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